I was born to serve although I
have never been in servitude. Amma
told me when I was young that there were worse ways to live. I could have been
born to those ladies who painted their faces and waited in dim lit corridors. I
could have sold my body or sold my soul. Amma
took my deaf sister, Malli, and me along to the only houses where our presence
was grudgingly accepted and in these houses, we were fiercely instructed to do
nothing but sit in a corner and watch, never to speak. One girl followed my
mother’s instruction out of necessity, and the other out of obedience.
Watch my mother ignore her ailing
back and sweep out the dusty countryside to where it belonged. Watch boys my
age sit in front of color televisions, glued to the motions of animated figures
that did not look like them or speak like them. Watch girls my age with dolls
that their father had only recently bought them and then watch them refuse to
engage me while I sheepishly held my hand out for their older unremembered and
shelved memories. Watch the women of the household hustle through a revolving
door of emotions, from lamenting their marriage to gushing about their newest
diamond earring, and from bristling at the news that a neighbor’s incompetent
child had been admitted into a prestigious school to pacifying a principle with
the latest overwhelmingly negative reports on their children’s inadequacies. I
would also watch the men of the houses on their days off, lifting their
children into the air one at a time and handing them crisp rupees so they could
buy bottles filled with rich, brown, bubbly liquid. I had never known my
father. As was consistent with the parables of children similar to me, those
not as fortunate as the offspring of my mother’s employers, fathers usually
disappeared a few years after endowing with a baby, the wives forced on them by
society’s rules. If they did not leave voluntarily, they were usually killed while
in a drunken stupor, weaving along poorly lit roads that hosted somnabulant
twenty year old truckers with a need for speed.
I
learned my mother’s trade while watching her. As I grew older, my mother’s
employers would allow her to have me help complete the household duties. While
my mother scrubbed the tiles in the bathrooms, I would rinse the crusty dishes
in the sink. While my mother cut fresh vegetables and bloody chunks of meat, I
would mop the floors with lemon scented water. Malli remained a spectator and
grew content idling in her own thoughts as we washed the windows and hung out
freshly washed clothes to dry. As the Patel family or the Reddy family or the
Mehta family sat together on their ornate dining tables and passed along
saffron infused basmati rice, cashew flavored chicken korma, lightly spiced
raita, and the obligatory accompaniments of pepper papad and raw mango pickle,
I would look up at my mother’s sad, tired eyes as we shared yesterday’s cold,
hardened, chapatti and the watery remains of the leftover dal in the lunch
boxes the children brought back from school. Amma would make me wrap up half our dinner in a kitchen trash bag
on days she felt most exhausted, just so she wouldn’t have to cook porridge to
feed us at home. You may ask what my mother did with the money she was earning
and why we were never bought new clothes or unassuming toys to play with. She
was saving. Her money was supposed to do nothing else but accumulate until one
day she could buy a modest house and own the land it sat on. It was a way out
for her and her daughters to hose down the revolting stench of poverty that
clung on to us like white did on rice. After all, homeowners could never be
considered poor.
I
was twenty when my mother decided I should bear children of my own. For this to
happen, I would need a man of course, a man I could not fall in love with but
rather a man chosen by my mother and her extended family. Selvan was his name.
When I first met him, I immediately noticed his kind, brown eyes. Sensing that
committing my life to him was not an easy prospect to grasp, he asked my mother
after our first family meeting whether he could take me to the flower garden
and spend time alone with me. Time he hoped would help him cement my trust in
him and my trust in the entire, arranged, process. We strolled leisurely among
fields of marigold and sunflowers and stopped to watch admirably as the sun
slowly set beyond the horizon. I was immediately taken by Selvan’s poetic
discourse about his family. He talked about his brother who had placed number
one in the state for mechanical engineering. His brother supported him and his
parents with his excellent job in Bombay. He spoke of his parents and how
devoted they were to each other and how he wanted us to raise a family like
they did. Love each other like they did. Here he was, Selvan, a stranger before
this afternoon, but a partner soon after. Before we were married, I dreamt many
wonderful dreams. Of Selvan providing for me and giving me the beautiful
children my mother so desired. Of opening his own tailoring shop and us affording
a home sooner than Amma – a home that
would be the envy of the village.
Selvan’s brother
was driving his parents to see the latest Rajnikanth movie. Selvan couldn’t
join them because he had a tailoring project he had to finish for a client the
next day. The futile combination of slick tires, a muddy road, a carefree
driver on the other side, and bitter luck killed every one Selvan cared about
before he met me. In the days that followed, he decided that the only way to
counter his soul crushing grief was the conspicuous partaking of voluminous
liters of palm alcohol. He stopped going to work. My visions of our glorious
future disappeared as I realized that he, somehow blamed me for their death.
Night after night, alcohol was his only appeasement. The pale, clear liquid that
gave him comfort every night would quickly turn him into a monster. Lakshmi was
conceived on one such drunken night where my mother’s incessant demands for
grandchildren created an apt and extremely convenient excuse for him to
forcibly take me. A few months later, I learned that Lalita, Malli’s child, was
similarly put into my deaf sister’s womb because Selvan knew she wouldn’t
scream. I could yell, of course, and I did every night as he admitted to liberally
spending the money I was forced to give him to present to our neighbors that he
was indeed a provider. He would respond in kind, meeting my verbal blows with
wild, animalistic swings at whatever part of my body he could connect his fists
with. Lakshmi and Lalita witnessed this cycle every night and could do no more
than cover their eyes and whimper, wishing daylight would take away the night
sooner.
Lalita
lived with me because I did not want her to grow up like her mother. If Malli
couldn’t communicate with her daughter, Lalita would lose the need to verbally
communicate and invariably become as mute as her mother. Malli begrudgingly
agreed to let her go only after our mother, old and unable to work any longer, thought
it best that Lalita live with me for I was far more capable than her of
fostering Lakshmi’s education and the hope of her future. By then, Amma had realized her dream of buying a
house and rented one of the rooms to a visiting blacksmith. The rental income
would more than pay for Malli’s comfort and hers. They grew closer, Malli and
my mother - Malli dependent on my mother for monetary survival and my mother
dependent on Malli to perform simple household duties and keep her company. I
was no longer very needed. I had two little girls and a slobbering adult to
take care of – it was unfathomable in Malli’s eyes why I would even want to let
go of my responsibility to the children and she made sure my mother agreed. While
they celebrated with my cousins, my uncles, and my aunts, I worked over the
holiday to build up our continuously depleting monetary inventory controlled by
Selvan. One day, after many Pongals had passed on by, Malli would knock on the
rickety door to my hut and hold up a piece of paper while brightly flashing her
pearly whites. Malli would be deeded the house on my mother’s passing. Our
mother had decided Malli would need it more of course; unfit to hold her own in
society because of her handicap. Malli held her head up high – in her eyes, she
always believed she was the superior sister and this act simply confirmed it. I
protested briefly. Amma refused to
listen.
Malli
had been born gorgeous and she had a complexion fairer than freshly squeezed
milk from a cow’s udder and even more so than the flower that bore her name. No
wonder that soon after our mother decided to walk into the ocean one Friday
morning, her only successful suicidal attempt among the many that her old and
maddened mind conceived, Malli found suitors from all over the state, all eager
to bed the deaf beauty and her newly deeded prime plot of land. The suitor that
won the battle of the bachelors, Ramesh, was a leading professor from Dolours, Trichy’s esteemed school for
the deaf. Not only could he communicate with Malli and deliver on her erratic
and demanding whims, he carried the Mudaliar name on his business card. Malli
had entered the higher caste –
Amma was right about the house after all.
Malli and Ramesh quickly became a
power couple. Ramesh started a school for the deaf in our town and with Malli
at the helm, people arrived from all over the state to enroll their children in
the school. Malli’s rags to riches story had been glorified in every Tamil
newspaper. Surely, if a deaf girl from the lower castes could become the master
and commander of a successful school, others could easily follow in her
footsteps. The moving pictures that played in cinema halls showed characters
playing greater odds than Malli had to in order to win.
Surprisingly, Malli did not ask
for her daughter back. Considering Ramesh could serve as more than an ample
caretaker, Lalita might have realized greater possibilities with him and his
wife. Perhaps Malli did not want to face the society’s wrath of mothering a
bastard child. Perhaps she had resentfully accepted in her heart that Lalita
would never leave my side.
The
day that changed everything began quietly. I was getting Lakshmi and Lalita
ready for school when Malli made her surreptitious entry into my home,
startling me as her unplanned arrivals always did. Malli had brought a new
present for Lalita and as she stroked Lalita’s oiled, dark hair, she asked
hastily whether I was indeed using the money she was sending me to buy
ingredients that made up Lalita’s favorite foods. I answered wearily in the
affirmative and I knew Lakshmi could easily predict her standard follow-up
request. Usually, I would angrily usher Malli out of my house but on that day,
I smiled and gently told her I always did as she asked. Lalita was intelligent
enough to understand her mother’s pettiness and stared at her mother with fiery
eyes as she left our home in slow, shuffled steps. Before she closed the
swinging bamboo gate that was imagined to be our front door, Malli looked
disapprovingly at Selvan passed out in his usual corner and the bareness of our
modest home in its ever squalid surroundings.
That same day, after
I returned from the home of my newest client, a white-skinned couple who had emigrated
recently from a land I could not pronounce, I began lighting the wood fire to
cook lemon rice for my family. The fire felt good on my callused hands. The
last few days had been a little chilly. I had bought a fillet of seer fish for
Lalita with Malli’s money – I knew however that she would end up splitting the
piece into two and giving the bigger piece to her little sister. Selvan had not
returned yet from his daily sojourn to the local toddy shop with his friends.
We were eating and laughing merrily about the impassioned pleas Lakshmi and
Lalita heard on their way to school – political propaganda that was always
ridiculous in its earnestness – when Selvan stormed into the house in a drunken
fit of rage. Murugan, one of Selvan’s friends, had made a lewd remark and had
told Selvan that everyone knew Lalita was his actual daughter. He believed I
was the tale-bearer, that I had told Murugan of Selvan’s wicked tryst with my
sister. He came at me with every muscle in his body eager to appease his rage.
I grabbed the kitchen knife and implored him to stay away as I backed myself
into a corner. This ploy usually worked but when Selvan kicked away a screaming
Lalita who had wrapped herself around his leg in an attempt to drag him away
from me, I knew my time had come. I closed my eyes and gingerly waited for the
blows. Selvan stumbled as he approached me, his mouth breathing out wretched
fumes of intoxicants, and as his heavy body fell toward me, I watched the
dreaded result in motion slower than life itself. Selvan landed squarely on the
knife whose handle I had pressed close against my chest but whose blade
welcomed flesh.
Selvan’s
blood flowed out without mercy onto our hut’s muddy floor and colored it a
vivid shade of maroon. He died quickly but not before shrieking many times in
agony. Within minutes, neighbors had stormed into my house and together stood
aghast, shivering hands covering their wide mouths. As I stood there, shaking
profusely and dripping with blood that was not mine, the only ones who came
near me where Lakshmi and Lalita, who were hugging me as the neighbors
alternated between checking on Selvan and looking at me with curious
discomfort. I welcomed the inevitable. Within days, although the police had
confirmed my account of Selvan’s accidental fall onto my instrument of death
and Lakshmi and Lalita made impassioned pleas to every one concerned of my need
for self-defense, I was banished from the town for bringing morbidity and
unwanted notoriety to the area, something the panchayat said would be hard to
overcome. Nobody listened. Nobody wanted to hear my story.
We walked away
later that evening with two bags over each of our shoulders. Just as streams of forgotten sand were whispered
away by our unapologetic feet, Malli and Ramesh watched the shadows
accompanying our bodies disappear into the sunset. Malli had tried desperately
to wring Lalita’s strong fingers away from my hand but she had refused to let
go. A mother of two I remained.
It
was only a little firecracker. Or so I thought. I offered to help light it for
the child of one of my new clients. I had made my way to Chennai and the black
skies broke out in furious technicolor during this time of the year. Diwali –
the festival of light. Boom! It was
the last sound I heard before the firecracker burst through my inner eardrum
and took from me the only asset I had that Malli did not. Soon enough, I was no
use as a servant. I was of no use as a mother. We couldn’t afford treatment and
I became resigned to my fate. Our fate. Lakshmi and Lalita could do no better
than care for me until I died. They would become servants too – a cycle I once
thought could be broken would meander in its usual, devilish fashion. There
would be no happy ending.
And then, millions listened.
Millions responded.
Lalita had met a writer in
college, a writer who took a curious interest in her story and an even bigger
interest in mine. Lalita’s diary helped. A diary she had kept from the first
days she learned the language. A language she wouldn’t have experienced had I not
taken her away from her mother. A language that flowed from her mouth and her
ink to the welcoming ears of her friend. A language that moved from the cerebral
cells of their minds through the fingers of his hand onto the screen of his
machine. From that machine, my story, in Lalita’s language, travelled onto a
hundred more machines. Soon, the story found other languages with which to
spread itself, like water in streams, rivers, and creeks desperate to find its
way to the nearest lakes, seas, and oceans. As a rousing finale, my story was
transformed into a language that needed no written medium and demanded no
acoustic quality – a medium that appealed to the very organ that pictured it
all – a silent film. I had finally found an audience.
I watch the neighbors from my
past now as I sit in a house bigger than anything they have ever seen before. My
eyes would continue to watch just as they did when I was a child, unaware of
where life would take me. Unaware that even though my mother had made me a
servant, my daughter would make me a queen.
Perhaps, Malli would want to scream, just as she did the day her daughter was conceived.
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